Keep an open mind—understand that swingers are liberated sexual people

Initiate communication—know what your expectations and limitations are and understand others’ parameters

Seek pleasure—that’s what it’s all about, having fun, meeting new, like-minded people, making friends, and of course, sex ;)

Solidify your relationship—don’t use swinging as a tool to fix anything in your marriage. Use it as a way to enhance your relationship with your partner

Investigate who you really are—many of us don’t really know all the pleasures we can enjoy until we explore new and different experiences, so try out something new!

Nip extramarital affairs in the bud—instead of sneaking around to satisfy sexual fantasies and desires, explore them with your partner

Give up stereotypes and social norms—so many of our expectations are based on sexually repressed, archaic social mores.

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